A Few
Tips on the Funeral Dress Code
A funeral ceremony is definitely a somber affair
often requiring a strict funeral dress code. However, having a
dress code does not mean that it should be bereft of all style. The
basic rule remains that the dress should be black.
Nevertheless, you can add a few variations depending upon the
prevalent style and the relationship with the deceased.
When I say ‘prepared’ it does not mean that, you should indeed shop
for a funeral dress in advance of such an eventuality. Rather, than
everyone should have a black dress tucked in somewhere in the
wardrobe – which could be used in event of a funeral. Women should
always stick to the traditional style if they want to feel ‘safe’
within the norms. The best is a black suit where both
trousers and skirt can be used. In case it is possible, the
best choice for a summer funeral dress for women would be to wear a
plain black cocktail dress, which does not have a too low
décolletage.
Always
Be Prepared For an Eventuality
For winter funeral dress attire, it would be
good to wear black sweater with black skirt or trousers and closed
back shoes. Be particular about not wearing open-toe shoes at a
funeral ceremony. The hat, if at all you want to wear one, would be
one with a very wide brim and always black.
Men too will have to follow the basic funeral
dress code. It is expected of men who are close relatives to wear
black suit and white shirt with a plain black tie. For other close
friends, it could be all black attire – black turtle neck sweater
and black suit or black shirt, black tie and black suit. In case
you want to come in black T-shirt, ask the family to see if it is
okay.
Men are advised not to wear any other color suit
than black. For footwear, men should wear black socks and black
shoes plain and somber looking shoes. Avoid sneakers at all costs.
These will look loud and disrespectful among the sea of black
dresses usually found at the funerals.
A Few
Things to Remember
Do not
wear any type of bright color clothing, such as red, pink, electric
blue or the like
Do not wear t-shirts without checking out with the family whether
it is okay or not
Do not wear patterned ties or any other color than black
Always be respectful during the ceremony
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